Sometimes I think God likes to get our attention in the most subtle of ways. As I’ve struggled with finding something to blog about I started many posts but never published them because I experienced writers block. I kept asking God and searching my brain for something to write and I began this post over a year ago. Finally I think it is time to finish what God placed on my heart a year ago – it’s all about prayer. So welcome to the first post in a small series where I plan on breaking down what God tells us about prayer and how to pray and what “The Lord’s Prayer” means for our lives.
I think maybe the basics would be the best to start with. Let’s start with - why do we need to pray. Prayer is our way of communication with God. It’s funny how many people tell me that they feel like God has left them or that they “miss Jesus”. I hate to be the one to inform you that Jesus didn’t move and forget to leave a forwarding address – you did. I think that what we forget is that though God is our Father – He is not a smothering overprotective parent. What I mean by that is you have to invite Him in. He’s not going to barge His way into your life. You have to order your priorities and show Jesus where He sits in your life. Hopefully that would be at the throne of your heart but many times this seat is already full of our own selfish wants, ambitions and idols – you know… money, people, friendships, a relationship, depression, emotions, etc…
In the same respect God is not about to send you friendly reminders that you stopped communicating with Him or that you walked away from Him. That’s the beauty of free will. It surly saddens Him to see one of His children walk away but He’s not going to chase you down and drag you kicking and screaming back to Him. It has to be your choice to turn around and reach out for His help and guidance back into His safe arms. He never leaves you – you leave Him.
Without prayer it’s like knowing someone and just expecting them to know everything about your life but you haven’t talked to them in ages! God wants to know you and to do that, you need to pray.
I think the next step here would be – how do I pray?
Matthew 6:5-15 is a passage where Jesus is teaching His disciples how to pray. I think there are some interesting things that Jesus mentions before talking about the actual form used to communicate in prayer. This is what He informs his disciples,
“But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.”
- Matthew 6:6-8
I think this is something we should even think about today. Jesus gave this direction to his disciples because back during that time people used to pray as a public show as a gaudy way of trying to impress and be seen. I think we should look at this in two ways.
First, he talks about praying in private. I see no where here where it says, “Go into your room, lay down in your bed, get nice and cozy then start praying.” One thing I hear often from people is, “Well, my prayer life isn’t good because I fall asleep praying.” Easy answer, “Stop praying after you get settled into bed.” God isn’t interested into listening to your snoring in the middle of you talking to Him. That’s like calling your friend and falling asleep on the phone in the middle of a conversation.
If you just have it ingrained in you to pray before bed then I’d advice doing like many of you may have done as a child, get down on your knees and pray. I’m pretty sure this is going to keep you awake. Also if you can think outside the box, try setting some time aside in your day to pray. View it as a priority not as a “thing to do before I sleep”. I treat my prayer time with priority and dedicate time to pray.
I think this also speaks of setting a mood or tone. I will say that you should pray throughout the day – I do. I pray whenever and wherever I think I need to. What I think that people forget sometimes is setting a mood for their time of prayer. Don’t pray and be working on your to-do list in your mind, balancing your check book or whatever else may be distracting. Set a mood and tone of worship to pray. You’ll find that when you remove the distractions and make prayer an EVENT in your busy schedule that you’ll begin to have a more fulfilling prayer life.
To sum it all up, I love the way The Message puts this opening paragraph
Pray with Simplicity
“And when you come before God, don’t turn that into a theatrical production either. All these people making a regular show out of their prayers, hoping for stardom! Do you think God sits in a box seat? (This made me laugh).
Here’s what I want you to do: find a quiet, secluded place so you won’t be tempted to role-play before God. Just be there as simply and honestly as you can manage. The focus will shift from you to God , and you will begin to sense His grace.
The world is full of so-called prayer warriors who are prayer-ignorant. They’re full of formulas and programs and advice, peddling techniques for getting what you want from God. Don’t fall for that nonsense. This is your Father you are dealing with, and he know better than you what you need. With a God like this loving you, you can pray very simply.”
Then He says to not babble. I think this is a great way to move into the next subject of what do I say?
Jesus set forth a MODEL prayer in Matthew saying,
“Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be Your name,
Your kingdom come,
Your will be done
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us today our daily bread.
Forgive us our debts,
as we also have forgiven our debtors.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from the evil one,
for Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever.
Amen”
Something key to notice here I wrote the word MODEL prayer. Jesus laid this out to His disciples as an example of how to pray. This isn’t something that you are going to recite daily until you die and expect your prayer life to flourish. I think what needs to happen is to simply break down the prayer and see the meaning behind each line and phrase.
I like how The Message translation puts this prayer,
“Our Father in heaven,
Reveal who you are.
Set the world right;
Do what’s best-
as above, so below.
Keep us alive with three square meals.
Keep us forgiven with you and forgiving others.
Keep us safe from ourselves and the Devil.
You’re in charge!
You can do anything you want!
You’re ablaze in beauty!
Yes. Yes. Yes.”
I think the best thing we can do is just talk to God like He’s a person sitting right next to you. No need for formal language – thees, thous and begottens. Speak to God like He is your best friend that if someone overheard you they’d think that you’re talking to someone on the phone. God is pretty simple and only wants you to talk, it’s not an art form just simply a form of communication. When you’re talking with words that you’re comfortable with I think that makes it easier to talk to God and easier for you to not feel like prayer is useless.
Next week I’ll begin to analyze and break down the model prayer and what each line means and practical application for our prayer lives. Comments are always appreciated and welcome.
Night,
- John